Living room

Yesterday Duane and I worked on getting the china display case anchored to the wall, and then we put the shelves in and added my tea things. Here is a view of the case from the kids play pin.



I took a few pictures of our living room this morning- we have only lived in this house for three weeks now, and it doesn't quite look "full" yet. I have boxes of china (most in a West Virginia barn!) and a closet full of pictures (here) to attest to this. However, here is atleast a view. The living room is 20 by 20- but, again, I ma pinned in by the... ahem... baby play yard. This is the best I could get without looking like I was in the play yard!




I love this sofa. We shopped for a "tight back" sofa that had 30's styling for months looking for something just like this one. It reminds me of the sofa in the lounge of the movie "Holiday" with Cary Grant and Katherine Hepburn. I think the 30's- 40's are my favorite period of movies for decor. Just on the edge of glamour, but lots of cottage charm. For instance, the "play room" of Katherine Hepburns in Holiday is so english cottage and I love that room! I also love the entire set of another Grant-Hepburn teaming: "Bringing up Baby". The dutch doors off the kitchen are exactly what I would have in my dream kitchen. The buffet behind the sofa is part of the set that includes my dining room table. Doesn't look "full" at all.





This is another view of the living room, Showing the corner where my over stuffed rocker is, and both china hutches.




Here is the last corner of the living room- its also the last bit of Victoriana in my home, left over from our downsizing venture last year. Before having the twins, we owned two homes- a victorian in West Virginia, and then our primary residence here in Georgia. However, we couldn't devote time to the upkeep of a large Victorian home once we had the twins, and the loss of my income certainly didn't help, either! We sold both homes and bought one house- the one I am sharing pictures of. This also explains why so many of my things are in my parents barn! They live in WV.

I do like this small scaled settee, and it matches my colors, so for now it has found a cozy corner. I have more pictures to hang around it, and also want a different area rug here.

Thats the visit to my home this morning.

Now my vent:

Why do people want me to separate my twins? Lucas and Matilda are going to share a room until they are 7, and the next set (if the same gender as I predict) will share a room *always*. Every like gender twins I know share a room, and are happy about it. But, any time someone visits our home, they inquire about when we will separate the twins (even the like gender set). My sister and I shared a room until we were 8, and its a very fond memory of my childhood that I would not part with. Sure, we argued and bickered, but, we also told stories at bedtime, giggled, and had pillow fights. Since we aren't close as adults, I treasure those memories now. I also believe if we had continued to share a room we may have remained closer. When we each had our own room we stopped the pillow fights, the late night chats and grew apart as we developed more independence and our own interests apart from the other. The one thing these babies will have is they are close- close in utero, close in age. And we want to cultivate that.

I am off my soap box now!

Thou who didst hang upon a barren tree,
My God, for me;
Though I till now be barren, now at length
Lord, give me strength
To bring forth fruit to Thee.

from Christina Rossetti "Long Barren"

I think this poem has both spiritual and feminine significance. I won't get into that right now...

I just wanted to remark that on this day honoring Mothers, I take time to remember those who have lost their Mothers, and those who are only mothers in their dreams and hearts, having empty arms where others are full.

Take time to mother oneself, be gentle to yourself, and be at peace.


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Just a couple pictures I took of the twinkies this morning. Its difficult to get a good picture of Tilly. She wants to play "ham" and acts goofy in all her pictures. Case in point:





As soon as she saw the camera, she started squealing at the top of her lungs. Then she flashes me a big smile, and squeals again.

Her brother, on the other hand, looks very serious in his closeups:




He likes to consider the camera, and think about how he is going to take it from me and *taste* it.

I know I can hardly expect them to have similar personalities, seeing that they are fraternal twins, but, sheesh, they are NOTHING alike.

This is what Lucas looks like during naptime:



He goes right to sleep, never fusses, and likes to face toward his sisters crib (as he is doing here) so when he wakes up, he can look in on her (we joke that he considers her antics the next best thing to reality t.v.!)






This picture was taken of Matilda within ten seconds of the picture of Lucas. She fights naps, she fights sleep... we usually end up having to pick her up and tell her she needs to sleep, and rubbing her back for about two minutes, then laying her down again.

Many moms are advocates of "CIO" ("Crying it out") to train babies to "self soothe" and be able to put themselves down for the night. I never wanted to do CIO, and we haven't had to. Though it takes Miss Tilly a good twenty minutes to calm down and go to sleep, she sleeps a straight twelve hours once shes managed to settle in for the evening. And, shes a good napper, too. Besides, on the rare occasion we haven't heard her crying, by the time we went into her room she was hyperventilating and having hysterics. Thats not teaching her to self soothe, its teaching her that her parents ignore her when shes upset. I realize this technique works for some children, but, knowing my children it wouldn't have worked for them.

I hope we are as patient to the "little twins" on the way. I have a feeling that if we have another Tilly personality, that she/he might feel a little less validated than Tilly has been solely from a lack of time. This worries me *alot*. Also, that I am able to keep reaffirming Tilly and Lucas of how special they are when their siblings arrive.

These aren't twin issues, they ar ejust sibling issues I think.

My generous sister in law

My SIL changes loves to change up her home decor and generously shares what she has "edited" out in the process. Isn't it great to have someone who loves to share as much as they love to decorate???

My dining room has benefited from one of her remodels- these are all three signed artist prints from a gallery she purchased them in. At first I wasn't sure they would work- I don't use much rich dark greens- but, the gilded frames and the burgundy is dark enough to look well with the more vintage fabrics in my living room.

I have come to really enjoy these pictures.



OK- the dining room isn't finished. I am not used to ceramic tile floors, and we need nice rugs in the dining room, living room, and a runner down the hallway. This room looks a little barren without a rug under the table. P.S.- she also gave me the centerpiece on the table. The dining room table, along with the china cabinet pictures below this thread and a buffet were all auction finds in West Virginia. Isn't this all beautiful? Yes, yes, the china cabinet or the buffet would fit on the opposite wall- but, thats actually where we store the high chairs, which for picture purposes, were pushed into the breakfast room. :-P




The above were parted with because of the chip in the frame on one of them. Until she saw it on my wall, I don't know that she realized it wasn't noticeable. I have two ovals with similar rose "library prints" and ornate frames that match these perfectly. We are just looking for a spot to hang them.



This is the prettiest lamp I have ever seen, and she decided it didn't go with her new tables at the new house. I was actually trying to find something close to it on our budget, when she pulled it out and gave it to me this past Christmas. I was so afraid she would change her mind that I nudged Duane to stick it in the trunk of our car that minute. Isn't that horrid??? He knew I had spent months trying to find that lamp! *edit- she replaced that lamp with one thats even prettier! Oh my goodness does she have good taste, its the prettiest lamp I have ever seen and its in her keeping room. Its dark with ceramic fruit on it in the most gorgeous shades of green and bright cranberry and the shade is this gorgeous pleated latte color. Now ITS my favorite lamp!




So, here my challenge. She visited me this week and brought me *these*. I don't really care for them (and they are larger than they appear here). She was very enthusiastic about how nice they would look in our home. I don't own anything mauve, and this is an odd shade of green. I might could make them look shabby if they were above a shelf with some vintage china, but I don't know... its probably the oldest pictures shes given me- they were at one of their offices (one they haven't used since 1999) and they have decided to sale the building this office was located in. So, she and her husband were prepping the building for sale and "thought of me". *edit- I have stared at the three prints for so long trying to figure out where to hang them that now I want to keep these. Hee, hee. Something about them is very sweet.

My mom begged me to one of them to my grandmothers home. She is 87, and has a bedspread with magnolias on it. I might would do that, if it weren't for driving seven hours with three pictures that would be taking up the space of a jumperoo for the babies!!! *edit- my grandmother did take one of the pictures and I know my sil would be thrilled with how happy this made her~ she put the picture of the victorian like lady with the purple background in her bedroom. My mom says grandma is very impressed with it.

If anyone has advice on how to make these look less "country victorian" let me know.

In sad news, my grandmothers dog died last night. "Precious" has been my grandnothers best friend for 13 years. She had a autoimmune blood disease and died in her sleep. Whats sad, to me, is that I believe my grandmother believes her health is too ailing and she won't "live long enough" to invest in another dog, and yet having Precious gave her so much joy and also Precious was a barker so no one could come in on my grandma without her knowing.

This also makes me feel a little sorry for myself because at the time grandma was given Precious, I was given "Mr. Smith"- my shihtzu. And my aunt found her dog "Kelsey". Smitty is 12, and Kelsey is also 12. Kelsey is on medication for her heart- she has too much fluid on it. Smitty, thus far, has been healthy, but he doesn't hear as well as he used to. He is my first pet as a "grown up". I am not prepared to have an adult lesson about losing him!!! Precious dying just hits a little too close to home.

Grandma does have two cats- "Pumpkin" and "Annie".

Speaking of ANNIE, and now I am just rambling... my grandmothers name is "Anna-Mae". She LOVES her name. She passed on "Anna" to my mother, "Ann" to her older sister, and "Mae" to her youngest daughter. Then, she gets this cat and names it "Annie". It kind of gives us all the giggles... how much she loves her own name! I only hope Matilda loves her name so much. :-)

lavender hearts!

Thanks to Lynda at Hedgerow Hollow and Alison at Foxgloves for this lovely small hand craft idea. I had fun creating these, and they will be so nice to tuck into linen drawers and stationery boxes.

I used felt like Alison did, but ribbon roses and a blanket stitch to close them up. I want to try them with fabric next.

cupcakes and bathtime

I made 36 cupcakes for Easter. In my family, we get together for every holiday. We usually go to my grandmothers home, or one of my aunts. My mother is one of four girls, so we have an ample supply of chefs and bakers for big foodie gatherings. When we were children, my grandmother would hide big plastic eggs in her yard filled with coins, candy, or the rare one dollar bill. We would gather around her kitchen table an color eggs with our cousins while my mom and her sisters prepared the ham, mashed potatoes, green beans, pineapple sauce, yeast rolls, and deserts. Then, after dinner we had a egg coloring contest where we would try to make the most absurdly colored egg by mixing dyes, and finally- *finally*- the kids would get to go hunt eggs in our baskets. My mom or one of her sisters would team up with the youngest cousins to be sure they found eggs, too. The older kids all knew that if an egg was obviously in sight, that we were to walk past that one because it was meant for a little sprite.

My grandmother is 87 years old and still buys herself a Paas easter coloring kit and every Easter sits down and colors herself a pretty egg. Like me, her favorite color is robins egg blue.

My husbands family, on the other hand, do not "get into" holidays. My husband has only been on one Easter Egg hunt his entire life! There aren't any large family gatherings in spite of there being four children. His parents prefer to spend their holidays alone. Its all very strange to me, and also quite lonesome living 7 hours from my own family in West Virginia.

But, this Easter we were invited to an Easter Egg hunt at my SIL's family home. I can't tell you how excited this made me!!! But, sadly, it was canceled, and no less after I made the 36 cupcakes. Duane and I had Easter dinner with the twinkies at Cracker Barrel instead. And, I froze the majority of cupcakes to pull out and frost with buttercream icing in small portions.

I learned a lesson here. We are going to have four children by next Christmas, and its time that I start my own family traditions and not lean on others so much. This is a difficult lesson for me as I enjoy getting together with extended family, but, its not fair to our children to rely on my husbands family for holidays when they aren't interested in them as we are. Next year we will have a huge Easter Egg hunt and egg coloring here at our own home and I will make a ham, mashed potatoes, green beans, pineapple sauce and yeast rolls. Suddenly, I feel very grown up. It is an odd thing to find yourself becoming the own matriarch of your family.

Last night I made six of the cupcakes, and this morning while the twinkies slept, I had one for breakfast.



Last night we had bathtime before bedtime. Lucas has such fun in the tub, and we just had to take a picture when he put the bubbles on his little chin.



Matilda is still somewhat cautious in the bathtub, but she loves to chew on the yellow rubber duckie.

After their bath we give them a massage with lavender lotion and then they go in their fleece sleep sacks and off to bedtime. Duane and I take turns reading their favorite story Dr. Seuss "Mr. Brown can Moo can You?"... And I have to leave the room when he reads to them because I want to correct him on the way he says the sounds!!! We have a very different interpretation of what Mr. Brown sounds like. Hee, hee.

Right now they are laying beside me, halfway interested in their breakfast bottles, and halfway tuned in to Higgleytown heros (whose theme song is done by "They Might be Giants").

7 weird things?

Thats a toughie.

1. I always read the back page of a novel first, and never see a movie I don't know the ending to. Suspense makes my tummy hurt, and knowing the ending allows me to relax and savor all the parts that lead up to it!

2. I am going to be the mother of two sets of twins. The odds of this happening is 1 in 3000.

3. My husband is a better dancer than I am (he used to instruct ballroom dance).

4. I love old Haley Mills movies and watch them when I am feeling under the weather. My favorites are "That Darn Cat" and "The Parent Trap".

5. I am the Bermuda triangle of sunglasses.

6. I often daydream about spending time in a nudist colony- I think it would foster better self acceptance and allow me to give up my false illusions of an "ideal body".

7. I love Rex Stout novels. I don't care how chauvinist debonair Archie and "1/7 of a ton" Nero Wolfe are, they are just too much fun!!! I love that Archie woos and is wooed by every female he meets, and that Nero Wolfe would rather plan out his gourmet dinner than solve a case he is overpaid for.